Getting Healthy… Again… and after having baby… and I'll spare details of how it changes your body!

Remember  Bridget Jones and the stick insects? I’m not one of them. There are mums like that too ya know, or rather “moms” here in the U.S. We’re so bland.

Anyhow, I have lost 2 pounds. That’s right. TWO stinking pounds. I keep going to the gym, I keep trying not to stuff my face. I drink like a gallon of water a day. Is this what leaning towards 30 does to you? I imagine it only gets worse from here. Andy has lost 12 pounds (granted he started working out like 3 weeks prior to me but he also endured an injury that made him take a break).

All this to say, I’m still going. I’m still trying. And I love the way working out makes me feel. Sweating after a good 40 or 45 minutes and then picking up my baby girl, it’s nice. Definitely more energy, and there’s more sunshine these days too. So here’s hoping that two becomes ten, ten becomes twenty and twenty becomes twenty-something (I think ‘ll be happy with 20)!

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Getting Healthy….Again!

So, yes, I successfully lost 30+ pounds in 2008. Then in 2009 I proceeded to get pregnant and put back on almost all the weight with the exception of about 8 pounds. But I would say now I’m more determined than ever. I want to be able to swim, hike up Stone Mountain, run around the park and more with my little girl. In order to do that I have to get serious all over again!

It is lovely being a mother, so I know all the curves and jiggles are worth it, but now (most) of them need to go. For reals.

My 1st goal is to lose 12 pounds by May 10th. No, that is not far away but it will probably allow me to fit back into my (non-maternity) bathing suit and take an infant water class with Gems before summer officially starts!

Another thing, I LOVE food! With the exception of some meats I am never going to be a huge “eliminator.” I like a variety in my life and as a Southerner of course I have many weaknesses and loves that are full of fat! Diets DON’T work for me. So here is what I did to get some balance and have a healthier attitude about food and weight loss.

Here are my tips (and how I did it before). I’m posting them here for myself and anyone else who might be interested.

1. Hit the gym AT LEAST 3 times a week (Preferably 4-5).
2. On non-gym days take a walk, do some yoga, something to get that body moving.
3. Eat often, but don’t overeat. Snack on almonds, apples, a little peanut butter with crackers, or a yogurt to get you between meals.
4. Love those leafy greens (and often)! Eat healthy salads (think spinach and bitter greens) with dressing on the side. If you want that fattening dressing, go ahead, but dip your fork and use less than half.
5. Eat breakfast! To be honest I would have a bagel with light cream cheese and a large coffee at least once a week, but it didn’t hinder me losing weight because I kept moving and ate healthy most of the time.
6. Maintain a healthy attitude about carbs, don’t neglect them but don’t make them the centerpiece of all your meals!
7. Eat off the kids menu. Sometimes I wanted something with fries, ya know? Ordering from the kids menu is instant portion control. If you’re still hungry get a side of steamed veggies or a side salad.
8. Have a treat night. Don’t overindulge yourself for a whole day so that you feel gross and run-down at the end of the day. But choose a night and split the cheesecake or have that steak (from a restaurant that serves grass fed beef hopefully) ;) .
9. Don’t think, oh, I can’t eat there or I can’t do that. What I learned? Bruster’s has great yogurt and even the unhealthiest places will let you create your own healthy option (no butter, can I get that with mushrooms and spinach instead of cheese? are great)
10. Drink water!!! Keep a bottle on you and refill it and keep refilling.

Okay! Time to start following my own advice. :) If this doesn’t help you or you think I’m crazy, sorry. Like I said, I’m not a dieter and I’m from the South (unhealthy eating is sometimes a requirement)!

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9 months up and 9 months down

Not only is there much to learn about pregnancy and becoming a mother, there is also that pesky weight gain. Whether you are a light gainer, a heavy gainer, or a moderate gainer, you think about your body constantly and notice the ways that it is changing- and there ain’t no stopping it! I think jiggling body parts are synonymous with expecting.

Everyone I meet or share a conversation with about this likes to remind me of the (apparently) old adage “Nine months up, nine months down. Don’t expect it to all fall off immediately!” Well, gee, thanks….?

I feel like God is trying to work with me though. Soften me to importance I have placed on physical appearance and perhaps still place on and lead me towards a place of more emotional, physical, and spiritual health. Balance. Finding beauty and peace in the absolute miracle (and pain) of bringing another life into this world.

So next time you are conversating with a woman, don’t try to argue away the weight gain, don’t try to share the lamest adage in the world, just focus on the wonderful, beautiful thing she is doing.

Okay, okay, you can remind her that she looks great for being a preggo, but don’t overdo it. We know we look different!

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Life's little blessings (literally and sarcastically)

babyThis week Andy and I have gotten good news on nearly every front. I am so excited to say that it seems life is moving forward just in time for baby. So…thank God for this week.

However, I wish that I felt that I knew what I was doing. I know it is only going to get worse. Everyday I read something else that makes me go WHAT??? No one tells you that happens after birth. Apparently the world keeps many secrets in order for people to pro-create. Then, just as you are about to enjoy the “miracle of birth” you discover just what lies in store.  For anyone out there that doesn’t want to know and wants to continue on in their happy bubble, I completely understand. For anyone else… keep reading.

  • Leakage- occurs grossly for the day after birth (as in “Oh honey make sure you bring 3 extra pairs of socks because it might run down your legs.”)
  • Soreness- breasts, down there, all that…for about 10 days. Apparently this is how long it takes to acclimate to breastfeeding. Umm….I thought it was supposed to be natural?!?!
  • Hemorrhoids- you’re about one billion times more likely to get these after you give birth. I don’t need to explain them. If you don’t know exactly what they are google them. NO thank you!
  • Clots- Bleeding occurs for 1-2 weeks after. During this time you might pass clots. One healthy pregnancy mag commented “may be painful and as big as a plum.” What the— No comment.
  • Weight- yeah, yeah, yeah. Everyone knows about this one. But it’s still unfair. No one likes cellulite. No one. Not even chubby chasers.

Get the concern? These are only the mild wowsers that I learned. I left out more explicit ones for fear of losing 3 of my 4 readers (thanks for being a constant baby).  I will be sure to let all my friends who desire to know the real truths about child bearing in the days after.

Are you already a mom? Do you agree or disagree? This is all merely hearsay right now. Give me two more months!

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French Fried Update: Holiday Edition?!

I have a lot of serious stuff happening lately. Why do family problems seem to permeate adult life at every turn? I have yet to figure that out….but I will be praying and sharing more later. Right now, I still feel like ignoring half the time and slowly processing the other half.

So instead, I will say this, I have not shared a lot about my weight loss in a while. I have settled in between 148 and 152 pounds for a while now, which is nice. I just still have a lot of fat around my middle, which I know is NOT good for women. The holidays really had me on an emotional see saw. Some of the time I ate well over what I should have, not caring about the consequences, the other half of the time I cried about my size and tried to eat what I think I should. While I think this is normal for women I am sad to say that I have totally gotten out of the habit of regular gym workouts. I have been doing some stretching and mini yoga/pilates sessions at home, but the cardio I was getting is quickly falling to wayside. I just cannot seem to get there! And walking by myself has lost its appeal now that the weather is either rainy and warm or sunny and cold.

I think that I am not writing this to say anything new, I am really writing this to say: I wish that I could eat chocolate for the rest of my life without feeling bad about it! I wish that I could be motivated to work out everyday because it really does make me feel better, and I wish that organic produce was cheaper! On an end note, for the people that say buying bigger sizes for people makes them feel better when they try it on, they are wrong, if I received one more sweater that was drowning on me for Christmas I was going to scream. Apparently wearing (mostly) older clothes does continue to make me look fat. There was one particular person who bought me a large from a store that I wear a small in, I am not mad at them, but I really wish that I felt all my hard work was apparent. Perhaps not humanly possible? :)

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The magic of the single digit size

So, as some of you may know from reading my French Fried Updates, my latest quest has been to become healthier and shrink my butt a little. For as long as I remember I have been a size 12, 14, or even the dreaded 16 (that was the college freshman 30 in my case!!!). But lately I have been a size 10. Also, I moved back in with my mother, meaning my little sister’s room is now next to mine. She wears a size 8 or 10. So lately my favorite hobby is lingering in her room, looking at the clothes I like, and seeing that the size 10s fit. I know it’s lamer than lame, but it makes me see the fruits of my labor. I’m a broke woman, I can’t go buying new clothes at this moment. This mornning I discovered something glorious, as I slipped on that magic single size, 8 talls, they fit me perfectly. I wish that were the end, but I got a bright idea following this triumph.

After having my morning of coffee and reading, I meandered from the bookstore to the clothing stores. As I walked into NY&Co., music blaring, black and white walls displaying the latest fads and classic workwear, I wanted to say “OH GREAT, I’m just looking for size 8s,” when the way too chipper for a gray day woman said “Good afternoon, how are you today?? Just let me know if you need any help.”

I continued walking through, searching for my perfect pair of pants that would serve as proof that I was on my way (to being thin that is, not world peace). I found 2, one I got in a size 10 and the others in an 8. GUESS WHAT?!?! The size 10s fit me perfectly. And as I stepped back to reflect on the image of myself in size 8s, I could only laugh. My hips rolled over the sides much like I imagine a woman who has just given birth trying to fit into pre-pregnancy pants. I have never been pregnant. But hey, 2 months ago they probably wouldn’t have zipped up. I am on my way. The car is just going 45(mph), not 60.

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French Fried Update 6

Total Weight Loss Goal: 23 lbs.

Pounds lost so far: 18

Pounds to go: 5

Okay, okay. SO, I am not obsessed with weight loss. But, I am 5 lbs. from my goal, and I am realizing that it will not be sufficient enough to take care of my gut… or cellulite. UGH, the curse of genetics (no offense to those I am related to). But there are perfectly round people that do not even have this problem! I am becoming convinced that I have the always a little bit flabby body type, a la Bridget Jones (read the book, I know fully well this does NOT apply to Renee Zellweger).

Anyway, I think toning and ab exercises are in my future. If I am going to go through the trouble of losing weight and getting healthy I should at least be able to feel good in a bathing suit once in my life! Ah, I admit that I am enjoying the benefits of eating better and feeling better. My battle with food and the bulge is not over, but it is beginning to heal. Food can be an addiction just like anything else, and I can see myself relying on it for emotional needs less and less. Do I still enjoy the ocassional treat? Of course. My motto is don’t deprive! It only leads to failure. But gorging myself on fatty grease and creamy sugar is not the answer anymore!

So if you are on the same journey as me, God be with you. Let us together pray the cure for cellulite is accidentally found (I wouldn’t want someone to waste actual time on something so trivial, but the accidental discovery of it would be nice)! :)  

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French Fried Update 5

Total weight loss goal: 23 lbs.

Pounds lost so far: 16

Pounds to go: 7

I am close, trying not to waiver. It has been hard though. Since the loss of my granddad and having a few days that were gym free subsequently, I have not been putting more into my workouts or always watching what I put in that mouth of mine. But fortunately I think I have developed enough good habits that I am not completely falling back into my old ways, just not caring as much about every little single thing. Maybe that is a good thing. :) Anyway, wedding is in 55 days, so I think I am good on the 7 lbs.! If not, it’s not too huge in the scheme of things. I am marrying the greatest man ever, so life is good.

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French Fried Update 4

I have lost zero. Nope. Nothing. I have hit a holding pattern or something. It sucks! But, I am going to keep on going. In the great words of Journey “Don’t stop believin!!” They probably didn’t know they were talking about my fight for weight loss, but yeah, I am pretty sure they were.

AND- I have not even eaten any fries!! Maybe I will today just to see if that jump starts me again. Hmmm….

By the way, I am so excited about the rest of what God is doing here, especially joining the Compassion bloggers, that I am sure that he is just willing the fat to fall off my body! ;)

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I gave in to the craving

Hey, the weight loss has been going great. But, alas, tonight I gave in and ate 2 Krystal burgers. I must say….they were gooooood. If you are not from the southern US then let me just tell you, you would probably think they were gross. Lol. They are little squares with a sticky bun from the greasy grill, a perfect little thin patty of Grade D beef, mustard, and a pickle. I get them without the onions! Yummy. It was worth it.

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