"Giving it to God"

How often are we told to do this?

Out of those many times, how often do we actually follow through?

I am having a difficult time with this lately. As the school year ends I am left without a job and I have been searching for weeks going on months. I know so many others feel this same way, but of course I feel that the odds are stacked against me because I am pregnant and already feel I gave up a current career for the school. I know this isn’t true, I would not have wanted to be anywhere else besides having a chance to say goodbye to those kids, but somewhere it seems that Satan is trying to cast a shade on the entire situation.

I very much want to give the situation to God. But what does that mean? I apply for any and everything? I try to return to Starbucks (the man of coffee)? I wait until my summer semester of classes is over to find a better schedule? Whatever it means, I pray that I will be lead in the right direction. Right now I seem to be at a loss. “Giving it to God” is not so easy as it sounds.

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Think Pink

(Or green, purple, yellow, blue….I am really okay with any color scheme). But, Andy and I are having a girl! Woohoo! Of course I would be happy with a boy or girl, but I feel that the world is as it should be.

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All my babies

I have a lot of them. And today (hopefully) I find out if this one inside me is a boy or girl. One of my students is particuarly excited about the name since I told him we were considering his. He really wants me to use his either way, simply adding -ela to the end if it’s a girl. I told him sorry, I don’t think that is going to work.

I can’t say I am ready to be a mom, but I can say I am prepared. I know what it is like to love people until your heart wants to burst. I know they say it is different with your own child, but I can’t help hoping God gifted me with some capacity that others don’t have. Because I want to see my baby girl or boy in the same way that I see these kids everyday, as invaluable, a gift from God, no one life being worth more than the other. I know that I will have a special protectiveness around “my own,” but don’t misunderstand me when I say this- I want to love he or she the same. In a way we are all part of one family, some of us are just more responsible for making that family bigger. We were all made to be God’s children, the fact that some of us haven’t realized it yet or may be running from it is no reason to deny that. So if you are reading this today- please say a prayer for all my babies- the one God has blessed me to carry and the ones I am blessed to interact with day to day in the here and now. They are equally His.

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If you need something…

Don’t be afraid to ask for it.

I am accustomed to trying to do things on my own. But more and more lately I have been reminded that often times the best things come from working together, or letting someone in your life help you out. The truth is most of us are taught to rely on ourselves, and even if we’re not we usually learn that some people can’t be trusted. But I say screw the cynicism. If you need something ask. I want to help. My husband wants to help. I have family, friends, acquaintances that want to help. We might not all be rich financially but we each have our own gifts, abilities and ways of doing things.

I could not be going back to school if it wasn’t for others. I would not have a load of free maternity clothes if it wasn’t for others. And you know, while that may seem small, it overwhelms me in a way it wouldn’t if I had simply acquired those things on my own. It’s great to accomplish something on your own, but the ability to help others and be helped is one of life’s little blessings that we often ignore. Just thought we all might need the reminder. So offer your help this week, or next time someone offers you something, don’t be so quick to say no. It might impact you in a way you couldn’t imagine.

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"Illegal Immigrants are Paying a Lot More Taxes Than You Think"

I found this article and wanted to share. Although it was written over two years ago I think that with the changing climate towards immigration it holds an even stronger message today. Article by Shikha Dalmia.

Denying public services to people who pay their taxes is an affront to America’s bedrock belief in fairness. But many “pull-up-the-drawbridge” politicians want to do just that when it comes to illegal immigrants.

The fact that illegal immigrants pay taxes at all will come as news to many Americans. A stunning two-thirds of illegal immigrants pay Medicare, Social Security and personal income taxes. Yet, nativists like Congressman Tom Tancredo, R-Colo., have popularized the notion that illegal aliens are a colossal drain on the nation’s hospitals, schools and welfare programs — consuming services that they don’t pay for.

In reality, the 1996 welfare reform bill disqualified illegal immigrants from nearly all means-tested government programs including food stamps, housing assistance, Medicaid and Medicare-funded hospitalization. The only services that illegals can still get are emergency medical care and K-12 education.

Nevertheless, Tancredo and his ilk pushed a bill through the House criminalizing all aid to illegal aliens — even private acts of charity by priests, nurses and social workers. Potentially, any soup kitchen that offers so much as a free lunch to an illegal could face up to five years in prison and seizure of assets.

The Senate bill that recently collapsed would have tempered these draconian measures against private aid. But no one — Democrat or Republican — seems to oppose the idea of withholding public services. Earlier this year, Congress passed a law that requires everyone who gets Medicaid — the government-funded health care program for the poor — to offer proof of U.S. citizenship so we can avoid “theft of these benefits by illegal aliens,” as Rep. Charlie Norwood, R-Ga., puts it.

But, immigrants aren’t flocking to the United States to mooch off the government. According to a study by the Urban Institute, the 1996 welfare reform effort dramatically reduced the use of welfare by undocumented immigrant households, exactly as intended. And another vital thing happened in 1996: the Internal Revenue Service began issuing identification numbers to enable illegal immigrants who don’t have Social Security numbers to file taxes.

One might have imagined that those fearing deportation or confronting the prospect of paying for their safety net through their own meager wages would take a pass on the IRS’ scheme. Not so. Close to 8 million of the 12 million or so illegal aliens in the country today file personal income taxes using these numbers, contributing billions to federal coffers. No doubt they hope that this will one day help them acquire legal status — a plaintive expression of their desire to play by the rules and come out of the shadows.

What’s more, aliens who are not self-employed have Social Security and Medicare taxes automatically withheld from their paychecks. Since undocumented workers have only fake numbers, they’ll never be able to collect the benefits these taxes are meant to pay for. Last year, the revenues from these fake numbers — that the Social Security administration stashes in the “earnings suspense file” — added up to 10 percent of the Social Security surplus. The file is growing, on average, by more than $50 billion a year.

Beyond federal taxes, all illegals automatically pay state sales taxes that contribute toward the upkeep of public facilities such as roads that they use, and property taxes through their rent that contribute toward the schooling of their children. The non-partisan National Research Council found that when the taxes paid by the children of low-skilled immigrant families � most of whom are illegal — are factored in, they contribute on average $80,000 more to federal coffers than they consume.

Yes, many illegal migrants impose a strain on border communities on whose doorstep they first arrive, broke and unemployed. To solve this problem equitably, these communities ought to receive the surplus taxes that federal government collects from immigrants. But the real reason border communities are strained is the lack of a guest worker program. Such a program would match willing workers with willing employers in advance so that they wouldn’t be stuck for long periods where they disembark while searching for jobs.

The cost of undocumented aliens is an issue that immigrant bashers have created to whip up indignation against people they don’t want here in the first place. With the Senate having just returned from yet another vacation and promising to revisit the stalled immigration bill, politicians ought to set the record straight: Illegals are not milking the government. If anything, it is the other way around.

You can find the article and more about the author here.

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Beauty

My one prayer for today is that I will be able to teach my unborn to love others selflessly, wholly, with no regard for who they were or where they come from. I pray that in my humanity I do not teach he or she to judge or cast blame, for we are all with blame. I pray that one day we will be a step closer to equality and that the system won’t teach that we are all different and deserving of differences. 

I pray that my child will see the beauty in something like this. Beauty in togetherness, equality in make and spirit, and most significantly mercy for all.

Taken at a hopeful “New Day” rally

There was one that read, “Please do not take my parents at Christmas.” How far will the raids go in separating not only families, but taking away humanity? I am not promoting a society where no one gives retribution for their actions, but delve a little deeper into the immigration issue and you will learn that most of the grossly unfair treatment lies on the side of the immigrant. I am sure you would agree if ever you should be put in their place. Thank God we have a Savior who operates differently than this government.

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Who would you date?

Someone that looks different from you? Or only someone from your race or culture? I have been polling my students. Not sure why, just was interested in their take on relationships. Not that many years ago it was considered taboo. I am happy to report that most teenagers today (at least the recent immigrants) don’t discriminate.

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Ending Slavery

If you like coffee be sure to check out Storyville. For the month of May they are donating their revunue- up to a million dollars- to International Justice Mission. IJM is devoted to ending slavery around the world- especially the trafficking and solicitation of innocent children. Support them, or if you’re a coffee lover (like me) just purchase some beans from Storyville.

Moreso, if you are a music lover check out what Storyville is doing with CoffeeHouse Live.

Awesome opportunities to give and be a part of something are all around us. We just have to find them.

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