Smug Marrieds
Last Saturday as I was getting ready to walk down the aisle my friends crowded around me smiling, inundating me with love and smiles and a last “single” cup of coffee, and then they did something cruel- they reminded me suddenly that now I was going to be a “smug married.”
I informed them that was impossible, only thirty somethings can be smug married, we have a couple years yet before that happens! I hope to NEVER become one, and can only say, I have respect and liking for both marrieds and singles. I will always remember the disdain at the smug marrieds and how they can treat the less than so. Always, I promise!!!
But God has blessed me. I think for me… I struggle with thinking okay, what next?!? Hopefully not kids right now1, lol. Although I did announce to my mother upon arriving home, there could be a baby in here right now. Needless to say, she had a bit of a moment. Unhappy, she is one of those I am too young to be a grandma types, not the when are you going to pop them out type.
However, since that is hopefully (God willing of course) not the case….I still wonder. I poured a lot into not wasting money, having a nice wedding, and thinking of my next career move. Those things are settled and now I am a married woman. So, thank you Jesus. Married life so far is wonderful. Only one notable argument on the honeymoon and it was the last day, had to happen right???
Any stories….smug married? Inevitable? Not? Fighting? Inevitable? Not?
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