Slavery

This was in a sermon at Grace Fellowship recommended to me by my best friend Jennifer. When I saw it, it made my heart swell. As many of you know, I live outside of Atlanta, the number one city in the U.S. for child sex trafficking, last I checked number thirteen in the world. This is a problem. And it’s in our back yard. Again I advocate the Trafficking Victims Protection Act. Although the nation is in distress right now, the William Wiberforce Reauthorization for the TPVA, now a few years old, will continue to financially support its cause. This is a small amount of the budget for a problem that is only worsening. To help or volunteer with this cause in Atlanta, please contact Innocence Atlanta or Wellspring for Girls. One organization is doing great things to raise money and awareness, the other providing servicing and housing to girls who have been affected in this way. 27 MILLION slaves in the world today. Do something. Love. Make a difference.

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Do YOU know what the MDGs are???

If you don’t, then you should. In 2000 these targets were composed and agreed upon at the UN Millenium Summit. Sadly, the world has seen little in justice for these causes. Charity continues, yes, but until people are willing to say these things are PLAIN wrong, it will remain just that- charity, not change. Do you write your senator? Do you talk to your friends about what is happening? I am not judging, only pointing out that the more the word gets spread the more people will let that awareness lead to their action. EVEN if it is a small local action opposed to global. Live in a nice part of town? I am SURE that poverty still exists somewhere for someone. I am THINKING, brainstorming, PRAYING about how to make a global move or contribution. But while I am doing that I am doing a little of this and a little of that where I live. There are small ways to help. Food pantries- are running dry like never before. The crisis that many of us see as an end to luxuries is an end to food for some. After-school programs- most exist for low income families that HAVE to work, but their kids have to get their homework done too. Sometimes mom and dad just aren’t there, sometimes mom and dad simply can’t help because they have no formal education themselves, or a first language interference their child simply doesn’t have. Shaping children shapes for a better future. Make a donation to a local co-op or organization. They use your “junk” as a provider for their services. The money they make from selling it goes to some great relief programs. This is my last suggestion, find a local non-profit that employs your interests and simply say “What can I do to help?” There are so many out there, and while they have salaried employees that take care of their “business” aspects, most will tell you their volunteers are their hands and feet.

So, the MDGs? These are millenium development goals that 191 countries wanted to be on their way to solving by 2015. The problem? Their people have not heard them. The UN and large human rights organizations, often the go-between between the poor and those who live in clean water running homes with toilets and electricity, get the message somehow lost. So spread the word, read them, and ask your Savior what you can do. It’s not about what he did, that saved us, here, it’s about what he sent us to do.

  1. eradicate extreme poverty and hunger
  2. achieve universal primary education
  3. promote gender equality and empower women
  4. reduce child mortality
  5. improve maternal health
  6. combat HIV/AIDs, malaria and other diseases
  7. ensure environmental sustainability
  8. develop a global partnership for development

In the recent past Congress has worked on legislation for both maternal health and debt forgiveness from the World Bank to countries like Haiti. Don’t be afraid to write your senator, and let him or her know you care. It might not make one drop of difference, but it might make all the difference. Let your words be a light in darkness.

Peace.

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Mother Teresa says (Mondays)…

If we want a love message to be heard, it has got to be sent out. To
keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it.

Don’t ever feel like you are not making a difference if you are giving out love. I am convinced this is Satan’s way of keeping you busy so you get so caught up in narcissism that you forget to do those things that you would normally do. “Sending out the love message” does not necessarily mean visiting 12 different countries and giving each child you see an embrace. Your love message is simply to love those around you. Don’t get caught up in the various little problems of life, because then you’re not paying attention to the opportunities to love people right in front of you. I allow myself to get into a bad mood way too often. Then, I am not genuinely me with fellow drivers, people making my coffee, or simply the person you pass by. In essence, I turn off the love, I turn off the opportunity to show other people God loves them, because I am too worried about my own miniscule problems. Again, the attack of narcissism. Remember that song “This little light of mine?” I just got it. I mean, I always thought it was just about making sure you were perfect all the time, but it’s not really about your “sinful” or “good” actions, but about being the person God created you to be.

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The magic of the single digit size

So, as some of you may know from reading my French Fried Updates, my latest quest has been to become healthier and shrink my butt a little. For as long as I remember I have been a size 12, 14, or even the dreaded 16 (that was the college freshman 30 in my case!!!). But lately I have been a size 10. Also, I moved back in with my mother, meaning my little sister’s room is now next to mine. She wears a size 8 or 10. So lately my favorite hobby is lingering in her room, looking at the clothes I like, and seeing that the size 10s fit. I know it’s lamer than lame, but it makes me see the fruits of my labor. I’m a broke woman, I can’t go buying new clothes at this moment. This mornning I discovered something glorious, as I slipped on that magic single size, 8 talls, they fit me perfectly. I wish that were the end, but I got a bright idea following this triumph.

After having my morning of coffee and reading, I meandered from the bookstore to the clothing stores. As I walked into NY&Co., music blaring, black and white walls displaying the latest fads and classic workwear, I wanted to say “OH GREAT, I’m just looking for size 8s,” when the way too chipper for a gray day woman said “Good afternoon, how are you today?? Just let me know if you need any help.”

I continued walking through, searching for my perfect pair of pants that would serve as proof that I was on my way (to being thin that is, not world peace). I found 2, one I got in a size 10 and the others in an 8. GUESS WHAT?!?! The size 10s fit me perfectly. And as I stepped back to reflect on the image of myself in size 8s, I could only laugh. My hips rolled over the sides much like I imagine a woman who has just given birth trying to fit into pre-pregnancy pants. I have never been pregnant. But hey, 2 months ago they probably wouldn’t have zipped up. I am on my way. The car is just going 45(mph), not 60.

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You had a little Compassion… Rose is sponsored!! Thank YOU!!

Here is little Rose. Again, I am choosing to feature a child from Haiti. They are still suffering effects from the hurricane and I think a little bright spot in one girls life could be knowing she is sponsored, cared about from a far away place. Both of her parents work at a church, but employment in Haiti often means wages that cannot cover the cost of living for a family. Rose’s jobs are gathering firewood, carrying water, and washing clothes.

Rose loves to sing, jump rope, and does very well in school. Rose will have an even greater opportunity to grow because of your sponsorship. Please pray and consider about this awesome opportunity.

Name: Rose Berangere Alexis (HA3539706)

Birthday: September 24, 2003    Age: 5

Gender: Female

Region:  Central America and Caribbean

Country:  Haiti

Program:  Combattant Child Development Center

Because of your sponsorship, Rose will have new opportunities to learn and grow physically, mentally, and spiritually. Thank you for your concern and prayers. To sponsor Rose please click HERE. To view other children who have been waiting over six months like Rose click here.

IMPORTANT: A CREDIT CARD IS REQUIRED as payment because this child has been classified “HIGH PRIORITY”. This child has been waiting more than 6 months for a sponsor. Help make a difference in the life of this child, who is anxiously waiting for a sponsor.

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We've gotta give a little lo-o-o-ove

A Rilo Kiley lyric, but not totally inappropriate. I have been trying to figure out some way to make this list better, or different from everything else that I seem to write, but alas, it is not working!! That’s okay. This is me. This is what I’m passionate about. This is what I do. People have pre-conceived notions and a tendecy to be selfish. It is who we are without Jesus. People also carry stereotypes. It is unfortunately the way of the world. Yesterday I volunteered at an afterschool program (a regular position for me from now on), and as I tutored a little girl in Math she turns up to look at me, her hand stretches out towards my nose, and as she touches the sparkling stud that’s in it she says “Are you Indian?”

“Well, no,” I say.

“Well, only Indians are supposed to have that.”

“No, other people can have them too,” I replied.

At this she squinched up her nose. ”I don’t think so.”

So I gave up and back to math we went. Subtracting and adding in her non-native tongue of English. She is a child, but she carries the part of the world with her that says there are things appropriate for some people, and definitely NOT for others.

So, these are things I have been mulling over lately. I have been reading Mountains Beyond Mountains . It’s been a while since a book ripped my heart out and made me want to do everything I possibly can for the greater good of those who are left behind, when many people don’t even notice they have been left behind. “There’s always been poor.” or “They need to work harder.”

In many cases, it’s just not the case. Some government angency or bureaucratic leader has tainted their homelands with SOMETHING that is an inconvenience to them, yet somehow serves the rich. This SOMETHING might be trees cut down, dams built, battles that are left to rot for decades, it varies from place to place. This is generalized, but it happens.

So, as I read this, and I read about one man who set out to change it all in one area of the world, and then expanded this mission into other areas that needed him, I became more convinced than ever of global-mindedness, the spirit of giving, and a love that flows from the heart all the way until the flow naturally ends. So, I paused, and wrote this:

It is not as if I do not realize I am a middle class American. I do. Whatever you may wish to call it, that is the blessing or curse of my birth. But as a human, a Christ follower who believes that Jesus’s humanity only amplifies the good I can do for others (in His name), I know that I cannot see myself through that lens. The only lens left for me to see myslef through then, is the lens of being a follower of Christ whose ONLY commission is to spread His love and disciple people in His way.

Reminders to self:

  • Stop listening to old theologies and read the Bible!
  • Stop hearing opinions and start reading facts- from this country and around the globe.
  • Never think of America as the promised land, rather, start thinking about the globe as the promised people (when Christ died he died for all).
  • Do not think of what you have or can have, and instead what you can give.
  • Refrain from looking at politics like a game, instead, support and stand up for only those things that Jesus believed in (realizing that might not always serve your best interest).
  • Don’t give up. You can make change. Every life, every person is an opprtunity. 

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Mother Teresa says (Mondays)…

Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.

Sometimes we spend so much time focusing on what could be, big dreams or envying others success, that we forget about the daily life that lies right in front of our eyes. It is very easy for me to do this. When I was younger I wanted to be a teacher. My father told me that my gifting was bigger than that. So, when I became a teacher, I somehow felt that was a failure. Somehow I could be doing more and I was missing it. Now, after teaching for two years, I know how BIG of a deal it is. An opportunity to really impact someone, day to day, year to year. Even though I really feel like my bigger gifting is different and I am not supposed to be in the public school system day in and day out, I have utmost respect for people that do and know that it is no small task. They are unsung heroes. So, if I never make it “big” I can be happy. Because I am being faithful in what God has given me, and I am not wasting my time hoping for something bigger in appearances.  I am hoping for a future full of opportunities, but who knows what that means. Like all of my drama teachers ever have said, “There are no small parts, only small actors.”

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Challenges of being sleepy

Last night I stayed up until 4:30 am. I don’t do that anymore. Tonight I am so tired sleep is evading me for some unknown reason. So I am thinking about what God has done for me, and as Andy reminded me today, we have to watch out that we’re not discounting and forgetting everything that we do have.

Oh MY GOSH…side note, I just changed the channel on the TV and realized it is only 11:40 something. I SERIOUSLY thought it was like 2 in the morning. Wow. I do not feel as bad now.

Ok, on to the important. I have still been stressing about the financial strain my accident is causing. So, to continue on- I am selfish. I am upset about money that I have to spend that I have. But at least I have it. At least I am not getting sued and I am not hurt, nor did I injure anyone. I mean, it was a parked car!

Also, I am thinking about Haiti and the food crisis and the jacked up prices on everything and why the top gets the profit and the big companies can use child labor and still get our money and the middle men feel they have to for their quality of life and the poor get the leftovers, which isn’t much, and how the problem in many parts of the world is even more severe than here, and why we consider ourselves Americans when we’re all God’s children, and how the kids I taught today are so sweet and when I asked them what God has promised them (we were talking about Noah and the rainbow) one of them drew a gameboy and another drew their parents and wondering what we are doing to our children and thankful that some of them are still innocent and glad that there are reminders of good out there and who God is for those of us who struggle with self or worldly wants, even at a young age. So, I am glad that I am there to teach them, even for a short time, and I am thankful that there are others willing to pour into kids and anyone who really wants to follow Jesus and it’s also cool to see those following Jesus that really just want to love people no matter what and pour into whoever may cross their paths and that one day I might not look at myself and say I’m white and native “American” speaking so it’s hard for people to trust me (I really really do have a heart for immigrants) AND this is all I think about when I try to sleep and am so tired.

Eyes burning now.

Jesus thank you!! Thank you for loving me and giving me thoughts and passions and help me show to others every day. I know it is going to take some work, but I admit I need it. Thanks for loving us all so much. Amen and Amen. Sorry Jesus, I was raised Pentecostal. It seemed appropriate.

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You had a little Compassion… Love is sponsored!

Here she is! Little Love. As you can see, Love is from Haiti, if you know anything about Haiti you know it has a turbulent and undeserved history, as well as a recent devastation with the hurricanes. The small island (shared with the Dominican) country has been flooded and suffered the loss of over 500 people. They need hope, and support. Sponsoring Love today is one such way to do this.

Name: Love-ginoue Hyacinthe (HA7550294)

Birthday: August 22, 2004    Age: 4

Gender: Female

Region:  Central America and Caribbean

Country:  Haiti

Program:  Mare Rouge Child Development Center

Personal and Family Information:
Love-ginoue lives with her mother. At home, duties include carrying water. Her mother is sometimes employed as a farmer.

She loves to play with dolls and to play group games. Sounds like little girls everywhere! In pre-school her performance is above average and she also regularly attends church activities.

Your love and support will help Love-ginoue to receive the assistance she needs to develop her potential. Please pray for her.

IMPORTANT: A CREDIT CARD IS REQUIRED as payment because this child has been classified “HIGH PRIORITY”. This child has been waiting more than 6 months for a sponsor. Help make a difference in the life of this child, who is anxiously waiting for a sponsor.

To sponsor Love, please click here. Or, to sponsor another child who has been waiting longer than six months, please click here. Thank you so much!!

So, this has just been so awesome. You guys are such a blessing. I love having Compassion Fridays to feature a child who has been waiting longer than 6 months from a sponsor from Compassion International. It’s a cool concept and even more an awesome way to spread God’s love. The other bloggers contributing to it are even cooler than me. For a reminder check out the list here.

 The weekly schedule:

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French Fried Update 6

Total Weight Loss Goal: 23 lbs.

Pounds lost so far: 18

Pounds to go: 5

Okay, okay. SO, I am not obsessed with weight loss. But, I am 5 lbs. from my goal, and I am realizing that it will not be sufficient enough to take care of my gut… or cellulite. UGH, the curse of genetics (no offense to those I am related to). But there are perfectly round people that do not even have this problem! I am becoming convinced that I have the always a little bit flabby body type, a la Bridget Jones (read the book, I know fully well this does NOT apply to Renee Zellweger).

Anyway, I think toning and ab exercises are in my future. If I am going to go through the trouble of losing weight and getting healthy I should at least be able to feel good in a bathing suit once in my life! Ah, I admit that I am enjoying the benefits of eating better and feeling better. My battle with food and the bulge is not over, but it is beginning to heal. Food can be an addiction just like anything else, and I can see myself relying on it for emotional needs less and less. Do I still enjoy the ocassional treat? Of course. My motto is don’t deprive! It only leads to failure. But gorging myself on fatty grease and creamy sugar is not the answer anymore!

So if you are on the same journey as me, God be with you. Let us together pray the cure for cellulite is accidentally found (I wouldn’t want someone to waste actual time on something so trivial, but the accidental discovery of it would be nice)! :)  

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